I just watched the memorial service for an exceptional man.
Had I known of his passing, I would have been there in person because he was an absolute gift of a human.
I met Phil Collum soon after I started my time at SCPD. Shenanigans, late nights, lots of dancing, solid conversations and friendship. He was genuine and sincere and I was so grateful for his presence in the constantly changing landscape of my life.
I will never forget the time I was out of town (before cell phones!) and he stopped by and was freaked out by the moving boxes in the dining area of my apartment. I came back home and explained I was fine and just a super lazy unpacker. He was equally relieved and annoyed.
Soon after, he moved back home to the San Diego area. I’m so sorry we lost touch. I thought of him often over the years.
I now know he went on to change the landscape of law enforcement in Chula Vista and beyond with his smile, love of all people, dedication to service, and I have to believe, dance moves.
There is an orphanage in Mexico that would not be the same without him. He visited every month, in the same selfless way he approached everything else in his life. If you are inclined, check out https://www.corazondevida.org/.
Not many people on this planet are consumed with the desire to make things better. I am so honored to have known a small piece of Phil and am challenged to follow his moves.
Even right up until the end, he was earning awards and changing lives. And his community LOVED him.
Well, my dancing partner, it seems there are just some people that are too perfect to be earthside for long.
Phillip, I will miss you being here.
If you have the time, his memorial service can be viewed: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ont6yE62GFA
It is worth the watch.
